Cover the engine, config.Size and metrics; fix the five bugs they found

internal/engine, internal/config and internal/metrics had no test file at all,
and writing them turned up five real bugs.

internal/engine (23 tests, new harness_test.go): a wired engine over a fake
upstream on loopback, a local zone, a blocklist, a cache, a query log and an
injectable clock. It pins the pipeline order end to end -- ACL deny before the
local zone, local zone before blocklist, blocklist before cache, drop sends
nothing, the concurrency and rate-limit refusals, serve-stale served with TTL 1
and refreshed once per key, truncation against a 512-byte client, and exactly
one metrics record and one query-log entry per query.

Five fixes:

- config.ParseSize ignored the unit multiplier, so 512MiB parsed as 512 bytes
  and the whole memory envelope was inert for anyone who wrote a unit.

- finalize (EDNS0 and the UDP size) ran only on the cache-hit path, so a large
  uncached answer left oversized for a 512-byte client. It now runs on the
  upstream, local-zone and blocklist paths too.

- The upstream UDP client read buffer was hard-coded to 1232 while we advertise
  dns.max_udp_size, so with a larger buffer configured every answer above 1232
  bytes was read truncated and became SERVFAIL. The pool takes the size now.

- LRU.prefetchGate was a 64-slot global cap, not the single flight its comment
  promised: a burst of stale hits launched up to 64 duplicate refreshes of one
  name. It is a per-key latch now; distinct names still refresh in parallel.

- metrics.RecordMiss and RecordStaleHit moved only the Prometheus collector, so
  the Cache page's misses and stale hits read 0 for the life of the process.

AGENTS.md gains the trap that cost the most time: this version of miekg/dns
reports a character-string over 255 bytes as zero length, so such a message
silently fails to pack, and the write failure looks like a client timeout.

internal/cache/manager.go

@@ -153,10 +153,10 @@ func (m *Manager) Get(k Key) Result {
 	}
 	if kind == Stale {
 		res.TTL = 0
-		if p := m.prefetchFn.Load(); p != nil && m.opt.Prefetch && m.lru.TryPrefetch() {
+		if p := m.prefetchFn.Load(); p != nil && m.opt.Prefetch && m.lru.TryPrefetch(k) {
 			fn := *p
 			go func() {
-				defer m.lru.ReleasePrefetch()
+				defer m.lru.ReleasePrefetch(k)
 				fn(k)
 			}()
 		}